Exploring the feelings behind the worldview theme--another project WORLDVIEW theme song...
song
for theme #41: Struggling with A Basic Need: Self Esteem “Me
and Myself”
by Stephen P. Cook to be sung
to the tune of “Nights in White Satin” by Justin Hayward / The Moody
Blues |
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I’m hurting and scared—I need a friend And this war inside me, I know it must end1 What do I care, what others may think? Make peace with myself, without it I’ll sink End the war [echo] the war2 Me and myself [echo] myself End the war [echo] the war I grew up unwanted—unloved, insecure3 Can I transcend this? I’m really not sure Reasoned belief tells me, a good person I am Then feelings of worthless hit with a slam Find self esteem4 [echo] esteem, Strength through self esteem [echo] esteem Find self esteem [echo] esteem Questioning choices, decisions I’ve made Blaming myself, with tears I have paid When things go wrong, or needs go unmet Life can be like that—start over, forget |
Find self esteem [echo] esteem, Strength through self esteem [echo] esteem Find self esteem [echo] esteem Life’s not a crisis, I need to relax5 Attend to my real needs, get back on track I know I can make it, that I can cope Grow positive, weed negative6— this
gives me hope Find self esteem [echo] esteem, Strength through self esteem [echo] esteem Find self esteem [echo] esteem All that I’ve been through, what I’ve overcome I’m older and wiser, not helpless and dumb We care and we’re sensitive, on the same team Thank you my friend, for helping me believe In myself [echo] myself We’re on the same team [echo] same team Strength through self esteem [echo] esteem On the same team [echo] same team Me and myself |
SONG—NOTES
/ COMMENTS (this
song is part of the author’s personal story) 1—
This semi autobiographical song is based on a 1973 poem and on
long-time discussion / empathizing with / consoling others. 2—For
many, introspection—the
process of looking inside one’s mind, recalling events, memories,
sensory experiences, etc, and reflecting—can be a healthy
activity. But for those with harsh critical “inner voices” it can be
a debilitating battle, like fighting a war. This song is about ending
the war and making peace!
3—
Insecurity refers to lacking
confidence and assuredness, feeling uncertain and unsure—perhaps
even unprotected
and unsafe.
Feelings of anxiety often accompany
feelings of insecurity. (For
the record, the author grew up feeling loved!) 4—Self
esteem refers to one’s self-appraisal.
It provides a measure of personal worth or worthiness. 5—Many
people with low self esteem and lots of anxiety operate in a
self-created state of emergency. 6—Replacing
negative messages, often planted in one’s brain during a difficult
childhood, with positive ones can be a difficult
process that, even with determined conscious effort, can take
years. Comment: the struggle for self esteem è
acquiring emotional baggage, but winning it provides emotional armor
(defense against self and other inflicted painful stabs) as the song
suggests. In winning this battle, your emotional intelligence may
increase. Basically this is being aware of and in control of your own
emotions, being aware of and helping nurture others’ emotions, and
being able to soothe yourself when distressed. |
the above song is part of The Worldview Theme Song Book: Exploring the Feelings Behind Worldviews--click here for more information
Musicians--We'd love it if you perform this song! Please contact us!