Exploring the feelings behind the worldview theme--another project WORLDVIEW theme song...
song
for theme #39A: Tough Love “You
Can’t Always Say What You Want”
by Stephen P. Cook to be sung to the tune of “You Can’t Always Get
What You Want” by Jagger & Richards/The Rolling Stones |
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Facing my soon to be ex-wife1 I planned some verbal abuse Saying I carried you for years in our marriage Now get a job so I can cut you loose Such mean words I couldn’t say to her Though they were what she needed to hear Doing a tough love number on my ex-wife In her eyes looking at me I’d see tears You can’t always say what you want Nice words can be hollow, thin, and gaunt Mean ones so aggressive they taunt But if you speak your mind You’ll do just fine And say what you need to…All right! As professor I had student workers A poor supervisor was I Some would half ass and cut corners Which I might ignore, not let words fly But doing that did them no favor They needed confronting, looked in the eye Hey man you’re slacker and bad actor You’re half assin’ here, tell me why? You can’t always say what you want Nice words can be hollow, thin, and gaunt Mean ones so aggressive they taunt But if you speak your mind You’ll do just fine And say what you need to… All right! |
As for unquestioning obedience2 Instilling it can take much work Parents should be consistent and firm But not fascist dictator jerks My daughter only got one spanking And she’s turned out pretty well But after being caught big time lying Her three year old ass hurt like hell You can’t always say what you want Nice words can be hollow, thin, and gaunt Mean ones so aggressive they taunt But if you speak your mind You’ll do just fine And say what you need to…All right! Learning from mistakes and feedback Is especially meaningful Parents can use teachable moments To help their kids outta some hole My son I helped escape jealousy And his life’s been a pretty good ride Threatened by his sister’s success I helped him feel good, take pride You can’t always say what you want Nice words can be hollow, thin, and gaunt Mean ones so aggressive they taunt But if you speak your mind You’ll do just fine And say what you need to… All right! |
SONG—NOTES
/ COMMENTS (this
song is part of the author’s personal story) 1—This
is an autobiographical song. For the record, the author has more than
one ex-wife! 2—While
instilling this could be a valid parenting goal for their very young
children, many parents will be more comfortable
eventually teaching them (as teenagers) to question authority,
and think for themselves when appropriate. Comment: ill planned tough love approaches
can emotionally scar the loved ones they are supposed to help è
their suffering è
their acquiring emotional baggage. (Also see comment for theme #2B.) |
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